Lately, I've been deciding whether to get nether access or not. One of the main reasons I am not getting nether access is because I don't want to have some guy coming up behind me and killing me. PLEASE CHANGE THIS
I am sorrynotsorry to inform you that this will never change. The PvP aspect is something that adds excitement, and fear, and a challenge to the nether. It's a hellish place. If you want to be able to get the materials, take the risk. Otherwise, buy them. Besides, PvP rarely happens, because people only see each other if they're at the portal. People set homes and are more likely to run away from a fight, because they don't want to risk dying. I'm not saying there aren't people who hunt down and kill others. But it's rare.
In the future you can use the suggestion format found here: http://www.ecocitycraft.com/forum/threads/suggestions-read-before-posting.8376/ However, I don't believe this is a plausible solution as the nether is the only world we have pvp enabled, and if that were to go away then many would quit; first it is mining, then nether? I believe we should keep it the way it is. Additionally, not many people venture into the nether at a time because of the fact that you have to pay for nether access. For that, -1
I wouldn't worry about it you like never see anyone in the nether! just type in /list first and see who has a pink name , so you know whos in the nether unless there in /v