Depends on a situation. My advice is to continue being nice to her, and hope for the best. If she wants to talk to you about something, let her. There is nothing worse than having no one to talk to. I know that always helps when I'm a bit on edge. I have some videos if you would like something deeper? Oh and if she is hinting to anything, try to attend to it.
Soft kitty, warm kitty, little ball o' fur.... My bangs are overgrown so I swoop 'em to the side. And that was my "costume" for my group presentation on Halloween.