Is it difficult to understand?

So naturally I left pvp hoping to escape the rude and crude individuals who inhabit that server, I came to survival for a better experience granted it started off just fine I had no problems, people were kind and thoughtful now after weeks of being here I find people who are being rude or childish starting drama and causing unnecessary mischief, am I wrong to stand up against it even as just a member while no staff are on?

Or should it be reported? I know I'm not well liked by many especially on pvp for various reasons nothing of which holds any credit other than standing against those who make unnecessary problems or start talking of being better than others yet I'm accused of the same so is it just me as an individual that needs to change or is it the server's community which does not understand or comprehend me as an individual?

For example, I had a situation today which was true none of my business to get involved, it was about someone removing another persons "menus", which were signposts being on survival this wasn't a big deal at first sure RP is suppose to be kept in creative however it wasn't that which triggered me to get involved. It was the fact one of the individuals was blaming the other without proof and threatening to get an admin involved over a set of "menus" which held no real significance other than being RP based which the individual was reminded RP is kept in creative, being as I saw this as a pointless and pathetic act of drama and utterly would've been a waste of an admins time and patients I spoke out against it of which the individual then decides to try and tell me to shut up or they'll get an admin on me.

Being that childish I couldn't accept such rudeness from anyone regardless of rank or age etc. granted I try my best to hold patients and understanding for all of aem but some of these kids and yes I quote them as kids, pups, bratts, what have you, any younger than 16 who have yet to fully understand and take into consideration things and people which are older or that which is not to serve their selfish desires an act of rudeness, I'm sorry but being 24 I show respect only when given it and when treated rudely I retaliate as any mature adult would.

And yes I've been ridiculed of my age and being on here fact is we all know MC isn't just for kids or teenagers and being that it's a free online community age isn't a restriction, but back to the facts was it wrong of me to stand my ground against this youngling who threatens me so carelessly with talk of getting and admin involved without a legitimate reason to back it or am I as they say just being mean?

Back to the main point of the post, though it is still better than pvp I'm still finding that regardless of how nice I try and start off being outside people manage to make me seem like a bully or tyrant of which this misconception is not only based upon an individual's opinions childish as they are all because I stand up for others including myself.

But am I wrong and just need to work on my image as a person or am I right and should be treated like a dog while trying to make the server a better place for all, granted I know it's not my job to do so but there's no reason to get an admin on when all they do is tell us quit the drama or get muted. so I'm going to see if you all will answer a post honestly and vote the same to if I'm liked or disliked as a member of aem.

Thank you

ElderWolfAngel

 

Agreed, on that conclusion rainingrecon, it really was, and your right flames it is rare that they have the balls to actually go through with it my point wasn't fear of them doing this it was the utter annoyance of how childish such actions are. Granted I'm well aware the ages are 13 and up from basis acceptance but honestly even at 13 I didn't act as though I was 5 whining about crap I couldn't change or getting people involved in a pointless situation which wouldn't do any different than waste time and effort of people who had better more important things to attend to the funny part was the person could only keep telling me the same BS of "this is a family oriented server" fact is none of them really are they're freely based upon multi age groups not family based just goes to show some of the pups on here are truly pathetic to even have to tolerate.

 

Well known meg, and I would be one who would be helpful in such times to notify staff, however this situation held no civility or common courtesy it was a kid complaining over a insignificant situation which held no merit on survival, and worse more his actions held nothing but selfish desire to create drama to a simple situation because he wasn't getting away with it or receiving the attention he wanted.

Thank you for your honesty diamonds, I agree with you those who don't like me primarily base their reasoning over personal misguided opinions, mostly for the fact that I challenged them where others did not, there's no harm nor wrong in speaking opinions if their presented in a respectful and mature way of debate, but because I called them out for their selfish acts or stupidity or uncivil opinions it's really the only reason any have not liked me in the first place, it's why I hold no respect for those who dislike me all names of which I recall of being rude, or disrespectful in the first place, people I've basically shot down in factions for their words and actions but I hold no hatred to them only the annoyance of their refusal to cooperate and be mature.