I have never understood the point of these type of threads. Did you un-join the server? If you want to play and have fun on ECC, please enjoy this awesome server. Since you seem to not know for yourself, then maybe you are not ready. Whatever you choose, I wish you the best of success!
Stop on in. What's it going to hurt? If you have fun and become active again, awesome! If you don't, oh well. In the end ecc is a game. Play if you want, or don't. It's your free time.