EVERYONE! PLEASE READ THIS!

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Itsa_Spenca, Oct 6, 2012.

  1. Itsa_Spenca

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    I don't know what's going on.

    It seems whenever I chat now or even post something to the forums, I get either hate, trolling, nothing, or people telling me to leave the server. So right now, I want to start over. Again. It seems no one will respect me anymore, so, like my other 3 apology threads, I need help. Why am I so hated? What did I ever do to anybody that everyone hates me? I will not even interact with people, and then they just blow up on me. It seems that now, every server I join hates me just as much, and I won't even say anything. So I kinda want to clarify a couple things really quick.

    Why are you always seeking attention?

    Yeah, I may look like I am, but let me give you a hint. I'M NOT. Everything I say about myself is true, nonetheless.

    Why do you ask people if you should leave the server?

    I get told to leave ECC a lot, so I ask this question when I am at my lowest. I will only ask this if I have a lot of people telling me to, and if I get a lot of "yes"'s from it, I really do consider quitting.

    If you quit, can I have your stuff?

    Hearing this basically tells me "You are only good for the stuff you have, so can I have it?" I assume this as hate. BTW, the only people who would get my stuff would be in my "Minecraft Will", but it mainly consists of people that actually respect me on this server.

    I really need your guys' help. Like now. I need all that I can to really fix up what I created on this server. Please, reply below or PM me (forums or in-game) of what I need to change. Please, no hate on these forums. I know you all hate me, but that gives no reason for you to hate on this thread

    To the people who respect me, thanks <3.

    (BTW, the reason I have been really mad this week on the forums/in-game is just a lot of family and friend problems, and also lots of problems in different minecraft servers this week. If you know me IRL, I really need those people right now.)
     
  2. kyra981000

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    dont quite!!!!!! i would miss you =( i might not talk to you alot but i notice you on and =( it wouldent be the same if you never came on (also can you join my town so i can see you more) you can have a free plot to prove i am your friend =) please be my friend
     
  3. RyanJF1

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    The fact that you say that all of ECC hates you is a completely incorrect statement. I, for a fact, do not hate you. I have no reason to. Well, I assume that you must be talking about ~5 people and not the ~200 people on the server who hate you. ECC is the most friendly and inviting community I have ever been apart of. For the most part, everyone is nice. This is why I get confused on why you think everyone hates you. You haven't given anyone a reason to hate you.

    I have no idea who you are, what you do, or where you live. If you need help, please PM me via the forums. I have helped many people in the past with family situations. I've been through more than you can imagine. I know what it is like to be upset. But, I recommend counseling if you are constantly upset over family issues. I've had to go to a counselor before and I'm all better now! Usually, most schools have a counselor on staff.

    -RyanJF1
     
  4. ajr000

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    If you require any kind of help or feel like you are being harassed, contact me, or another staff member. You shouldn't have to deal with things like that alone. I refuse to accept any kind of bullying on this server. I urge you to seek out help next time.
     
  5. WhiteStarX0312

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    Sorry about how people treat you :( Just a note though on quite a few post of yours, you engage in arguments about things so maybe you should just stay out.of them if people start to be rude :/
     
  6. iorbit

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    Ah, I know how you feel :p - If you ever need any help, anytime, feel free to message me In-Game, I hate a lot of patience, and like to chat, and do not worry, I wont be mad at you, in fact, I have never saw anyone hating you, but yah, if you do need help with making friends or anything, Msg me In-Game, I always like a chat time :)
     
  7. Stephenkp

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    I see you on a lot in chat, i never really talk to u but i dont hate u, u seem like a pretty cool guy
     
  8. scottyang1323

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    I dont know who you are
    But to be bullied and insulted like this is pretty unacceptable

    I had a look through your history (Yes I was stalking lol :D ), and the thing that seems to haunt you is your thread on crop prices, and that has seemed to leave other users with a extremely bad taste of you.

    I dont think that you have to quit

    I dont know you well but your awesome :)