This name is very inappropriate and should receive a permaban. Rules from Ecocitycraft site states: "Vulgarity All chat must be kept PG and clean - lots of our users are very young. There is to be nothing deemed sexual - prostitution, rape, molestation, abortion, or anything of the like. We absolutely do not tolerate such inappropriate chat, and you can be severely punished if it continues. This includes anything put on signs in gameplay; and goes for all of these rules." My nephew plays on this server and to have a player, a mod even, named something sexual is uncalled for. I'm pretty sure I don't have to explain what it means.
My name is not sexual in nature, nor has it ever been sexual. Other users have assumed it was sexual because it has asphyxiate, which means to choke, and love, which is an emotion in the same name.
Web definitions: (asphyxiator) fire extinguisher: a manually operated device for extinguishing small fires. (love) An intense feeling of deep affection I see nothing wrong with this. Asphy enjoys putting out fires. Hence why he did time in the navy. (water being the opposite of fire). We ban for OBVIOUSLY inappropriate terms. You actually have to twist this name to make it inappropriate.