Before I begin with this next tutorial, I just wanted to say thanks for all the support on the last post. The last post got over 6 likes and counting. So I have decided to make another tutorial on dealing with bullies on the server. ====================================== Sometimes on Survival, I encounter someone a unfavorable person on the server. They are either being rude to myself or someone else. Usually I just ignore them. If it happens to someone else, I try to stop that person. Here are some tips on how to stop bullying on the server. ====================================== Usually if you encounter someone who is rude to you, you want to be rude back. But this is not the best thing to do. This is what the person wants; is for you to fight back. Don't sink down to their level. Anything that happens, don't fight back [Unless you are PVPing them lol]. But do not strike back at them in chat. Try not to feel hurt and show confidence. Use terms like (I do not respond to such behavior) or (I don't have time to deal with you). If they continue, tell them to stop. It may sound ridiculous, but it can make a difference. If they are insulting you over /msg, then do /ignore <bullies name>. Be as mature as possible, when responding to the person. If there is a helper/mod/manager/admin/etc, you can /msg them. But chances are, they have seen the behavior and will put a stop to it. Don't take any comments personally. (Most likely, the person has never met you in real life) Do not take matters into your own hands =================================================================== I hope you enjoyed this tutorial. If you have any questions, please comment down below. I will respond as soon as I can. And don't forget to like this post
TBH for me words dont really hurt. Like there's this one kid (irl) that makes fun of me being chinese and targets me and my friends (prob cos we the smartest friend group in the grade and has the highest grades xD). its when he calls my FRIENDS names that gets my gears grinding. But anyway i digress lol. Sometimes against internet bullies i try to make a joke and ease the tension sometimes. But that doesnt always work so idk this is an awesome post good job Ultra
To be honest, the best solution is just to /ignore them the moment they start being toxic towards you. Like, why put up with that, you can clearly see that the player is incapable of respecting others. Replying the "bullies" is what they want you to do, they don't care if you stand up for yourself or your friends, they just want a reaction out from you. Don't give that to them. I have encountered them in real life when I was younger. What I did was ignore them completely, the moment you see them, look away. Don't look down, hold your head high up. They are not in charge of your life, you do whatever you want. They can't deny who you are, don't let them. If you are ever getting bullied and have no one to go to, feel free to private message me or start a conversation with me, I'll hear you out. Cyber bullying or real life, I'll listen to whatever you have to say. Just remember, you are unique and special in your own way, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Good advice , but personally I prefer to do everyone else on the server a favour by letting the bully do what they want , reporting them and letting staff deal with them. Of course I ignore them once I have sufficient evidence, but I feel it's better we remove, jail or at least mute the bullies rather than having everyone need to /ignore them. To be honest , dealing with players for bullying/offensive language is hardly ever necessary , as there is always normally an active staff member on survival, and if not you can easily find staff elsewhere like on skyblock who will happily respond to your request. Bullying isn't tolerated and the staff are very efficient in dealing with these players.
That's another way to handle things, I honestly would prefer to talk to them first if anything. They may target one player for specific reasons which you can expect to be a little childish. We won't know what happened to them, perhaps they were having a bad day and Player 1 said something that may have been the last straw for the "bully" to snap. He would start going off at that player. See, in most situations, players would most likely side Player 1 if "bully" is not a well known player or is new. But Player 1 is well known so what they do is take screenshots of the bully insulting Player 1, making it seem like he was the victim. When someone is upset, their thoughts gets blocked off and they'll be incapable of making goof choices. But then again, there are many many manyyy different types of problems and situations you can choose from so you're not wrong either.
This is correct it would be better to have a neutral easy to read color and not such a dark red! @Ultraseb
